We spend our days bound by endless obligations. Yet, even with loneliness, failed relationships, and soul-draining work, people still manage to catch a glimpse of happiness. Why?

  • Etterra@discuss.online
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    18 days ago

    First existential crisis? There’s isn’t one. Once you make peace with that fact then you can overcome the existential dread of oblivion and move on content in the understanding that nothing you do matters in the long run, and focus your energy on something else.

  • starman2112@sh.itjust.works
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    18 days ago

    “There’s no point living, so you may as well die” is so last decade. “There’s no point dying, so you may as well live” is where it’s at

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      17 days ago

      There’s no point in living, but make sure you take a couple of the bastards with you when you go down.

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      18 days ago

      “We’re all going to die someday. Might as well do what you love doing” - Alex Honnald. Free Solo (or something like that)

  • BradleyUffner@lemmy.world
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    17 days ago

    But you are here now, so live a good life and enjoy it while you can. Maybe try to help others do the same. This is all we get, so use it to the fullest.

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      17 days ago

      This. “It is a cheap generosity that promises the future as compensation for the present.”

  • Tartas1995@discuss.tchncs.de
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    16 days ago

    How does something afterwards change the meaning of this in a good way?

    Why fight for justice? E.g. the bible says god will judge and that i shouldn’t. So if I just don’t care about anything here but about god, I might have a bad time now but eternal happiness later. How meaningless is now this here? Everything is transactional. The love that you gave is for the sake of getting some much much more valuable later.

    Why do people find happiness even in the worst situations? Because it is the only way to deal with it. We are made for survival and survival requires the willingness to survive. It doesn’t matter if you are the strongest fighter, if you don’t even want to fight back. Your desires come from survival needs.

    And a little extra bit, there might not be a point in living. It might be meaning less. But I personally want to be happy. I just do. So everyday I work towards being happy. As I personally love my family and friends, I wish them to be happy. I just do. As my friends have family and friends, and their happiness is somewhat linked to their family and friends happiness, I want all of them to be happy too. And so on. As I can relate to the joy of being proud of oneself, I want them to feel that joy. And so on. None of this is objectively meaningful, I just like it that way. And I might be an asshole but I don’t care if you agree with me, I want you feeling happy and fulfilled. Deal with it.

  • andrewta@lemmy.world
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    18 days ago

    Learn. Evolve. Improve one’s mind. Understand more of the universe. Gain a greater understanding of one’s place in the universe. Grow beyond what we understand and comprehend existence at this point.

  • If nothing we do matters, the only thing that matters is what we do.

    Life sucks, the world is a bad place. Leave it just a little bit better than you found it and you’ve lived life’s purpose in my book. We are generational garbage collectors, picking up the pieces of societal trash our forebearers left behind. So do your part. Pick up the trash. Leave the world just a little bit better than you found it.

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      18 days ago

      Genuinely thanks for that first line. I’ve held that idea for a long time without the correct words for it to explain how I feel to other people.

      I feel like it also compliments the philosophy of “why not?” As in, “if nothing we do matters, why not be kind? Why not love people? Why not help people present and future?” If good and evil are equal utility, why not be a good person?

  • bstix@feddit.dk
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    18 days ago

    I prefer not having a meaning of life.

    Imagine having a real purpose. Then the question would still be “why”, but you’d also have that obligation to do.

  • LordKekz@discuss.tchncs.de
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    17 days ago

    There is no inherent goal or point in life. You get to decide. You get to give your life meaning.

    It can be hard. Sometimes, material conditions like poverty, working conditions or social pressure make it hard to find meaning. Sometimes, you can loose the meaning, like when you loose a loved one. A good society should help empower all people to give themselves meaning. Sadly this is not the direction many countries are taking nowadays.

    But despite everything: You are ultimately empowered to create meaning for yourself. Nobody can truly take that away from you.